Friday, January 25, 2013

My Reading List

I have been doing quit a bit of reading lately.


For many months I was not doing much reading, except for my scripture study. Mainly because I feel a little guilt when I read. When I sit down to do it, there is inevitably a laundry pile staring at me, or a mess in the kitchen that needs my attention.
(Side note: Why is it that when the kitchen is clean, everything other mess in the house feels conquerable, and vise versa?)

And then there is the "What would so and so (insert the name of the busiest, most amazing woman you know) think of me if she saw me sitting here reading?!!

Here is the thing though.
I LOVE to read. Adore it, get excited about it.
 My heart skips a little when I think to myself, "After I get feed Walker lunch, get that cleaned up, and him down for a nap, and the laundry folded, and the bathroom wiped down, and the paper stack sorted, (and on and on,) I am going to READ MY BOOK!! And I am a fast reader. I devour books.

When I was growing up, I spent hour upon hour reading. I can remember where in my parents house I sat as I read certain things that still stick with me, that changed the way I thought as I grew up.
So WHY have I been neglecting that important aspect of my life. Sure there are just simply times in this life when it is downright impossible to put things aside and pull out a good book. This is important to me though.

I have been compiling a list of books from friends for months now, and I finally made the trip to the library to get them.
I thought back to some of the books I read during 2012, and I thought I would share a few. I know I am always looking to add to my list of "Must Reads!" Maybe you are too!

 -"Outliers" by Malcolm Gladwell.
I have read several of his other books, and they are always thought provoking. Two of his others that come to mind are "The Tipping Point," and "Blink." I think Outliers may be my favorite of his of those three. He certainly gives a new view point to what may seem ordinary. He goes through the factors that have made successful people who they are. This book has me thinking about my current and future goals. I will share more on this book in another post, because it has crossed over into many areas of my life.

-"Forest Born" by Shannon Hale.
I enjoy reading Shannon Hale books. I think mainly because I hope one day my adolescent daughter will love them. There is a long list of books she has authored. Read them all.

-"Killing Licoln"  by Bill O'Reilly
I mentioned that I had read this book on vacation early in 2012. It was really a good read. I wanted to add that a companion book to read before or after this one would be...
-"Team of Rivals" by Dorris Kearns Goodwin
This book is written by a historian. She goes through the early life of Lincoln and all of his cabinet members. I thought reading about the family dynamics and political motivation of all of these leaders of our Nation was fascinating. The accounts of the Southern states at that time was something that stood out to me.

"Out of My Mind" by Sharon M. Draper
This book is about a girl with cerebral palsy who has a photographic memory. I found the story interesting, but sad. It did however give me a whole new way of looking at those who may be unable to express themselves because of a disability. It broadened my compassion and anything that does that is worth reading.

"The Gift" by Gavin de Becker
A friend recommended this book as a must read. It is all about cultivating, and learning to listen to our instincts. It a fascinating look inside the minds of people who become fixated, may be violent, or otherwise disturbed, and how to protect yourself from being their target. While at times I felt he wandered off into his own accolades, politics, and walked the line on name dropping, with out actually doing it,  it starts out with captivating scenarios. I will never look at potential trouble makers in my life the same again. I need to read his follow up book, " Protecting the Gift," which is geared toward parents, and how they can teach their children to follow their instincts.

-"A Single Shard" by Linda Sue Park
This Newbery Medal winning book was one I started reading to my boys. They were a little lost a few chapters in, but I finished it on my own. It is the story of a homeless boy in 12th century Korea who becomes a potter. It is actually more the story of a very old and famous piece of pottery. I enjoyed the book, but after I was done with it, I read the Newbery Honor acceptance speech given by the author that was included at the front of the book. I found her speech to be so inspiring! It made me sit and think about moments and books that have impacted my life. She lit a fire in me to try new things! I will definitely be reading this book with my boys again in a year or two when they are more capable of following.

-"Okay For Now" by Gary D. Schmidt
My Mom recommended this book. I cried like a baby through the first half of it, and thought I couldn't finish. My hormones must have been going crazy or something at that time! But I did finish and it was a nice story about beating the odds. The main character is a boy who is growing up in a disfunctional home, but has many talents that others help him cultivate. It is a Polyanna story. I ended up liking it a lot, even after my emotional roller coaster.

-"The Walk (Series)" by Richard Paul Evans
Speaking of emotional roller coasters! I started reading this series shortly after our remarkable Stake President's (leader of many congregations in our church) amazing wife was severely injured in a life altering accident this past year. I had them on my mind the entire time I read this story. It is the story of a man who goes on a walking journey after his wife is injured in a accident, and all the characters he meets that pull on your heart strings. I was a mess reading this series, but it is really good. I realized how much my family means to me, and it was a really good reminder to me of what matters, and what to do differently during a year that was requiring a lot of mental energy when it came to being flexible in running our business.

-"The Amateur" by Edward Klein
I don't know if this is even worth recommending anymore now that the Presidential election is over. It scared me to death, and there is nothing to do about it. But it does give an interesting insight into the life of Barack Obama leading up to his Presidential win, and his running of the United States. If you are anything like me, you are just trying to enjoy a moment of ignorance after the barrage of in your face politics we just came off of. ( I am very interested in politics, and get too emotionally invested, hence I need a breather while I feel raw after that election, before I dive back in.) I do not know where this author falls as far as party idealogy, because he has worked for Newsweek, and the New York Times, but just as a warning, an as you may guess from the title, this book is critical of Barak Obama.

There you have it! Some of the books that added to my year! I am determined to get as many new ideas as I can into this head of mine in 2013, and books will only help me on my way!

So, now my friends, if you would not mind sharing some of your reads with me! Thanks so much to those who gave me some of the books on this list!
As you can see, Will thinks you ought to read the "Diary of A Wimpy Kid" series. He has got you covered.

Read to Succeed, right?!








Monday, January 7, 2013

2013

 I am excited about this year!

I think that some of that is because I feel like 2012 handed us some situations we did not expect, and I am really hoping that I learned from them, and can apply all my wisdom to the year 2013.

Yeah... wisdom and me. Right.

But in all seriousness, there were some moments in 2012 that I thought.
"I am not enjoying this turn of events. I kind of wish all of this would go away.."
Okay, maybe I cried.

And like most moments that feel that way, they did eventually pass. Some of them even lead to unexpected blessings that made me feel that my cup was truly running over. Because really, it is.

I am soooo grateful that I can truly say that none of them involved life or death, or the immediate health of a close loved one.
I know so many who had a year of those kinds of scares. I pray for them often.

I refuse to call anything I have dealt with challenges, or trails, because really, I have NOTHING to complain about. I will think of them as learning opportunities.

Many of the 2012 learning opportunities we found ourselves dealing with, will unfortunately follow us into 2013. But I hope I handle what remains with grace and gratitude.

I think that will be my theme for the year. "Grace and Gratitude."

I have never had a personal "theme" for my year. But those are both qualities I would love to be constantly improving. So if you hear me chanting "Grace and gratitude, grace and gratitude!"  under my breathe this year, just know it is a coping mechanism. Ha!

2013 marks ten years since we moved away from our families and out to the Midwest. I will be sure to write a post in May when we officially hit the decade mark, just to make sure it is well documented. You see, ten years was never the plan. We are learning that in some things our plan is not THE plan. So we will take it a year at a time. We may not have planned to be here this long, but we also never foresaw some the amazing blessings we have been given either.

I do have goals written down. My dear, uber goal oriented husband made sure of that. And I thought I was a goal maker until I married Del!
I am waiting for a moment of inspiration so that I can complete a couple of the projects I have in mind. I really hope 2013 turns that light bulb on for me!

Here are some of the 2012 highlights!

-A new home found us. We were not openly searching, and yet here I sit in a new home. Still amazes me!

-With a new home came new really great neighbors and friendships, for me and the kids.

-I was called as Primary President at church. I oversee the Sunday schedule and all activities and classes for the children ages 18 months to 12 years for our ward (or congregation assigned to meet at the same time because of where they live geographicaly)  in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.

-This calling brought new friendships that have blessed my life.

-As usual we had good friends move away, and we met new good friends who moved in. The bitter and the sweet.

-Del and I vistied Hawaii, and specifically Kauai for the first time. We were also able to get away to a couple of other cities this year. All of the time very welcome and appreciated!

-We took several trips as a family. We took time to visit Kentucky, Utah a couple of times, California, The Dells, and Del and Wally backpacked in Wyoming.

-Georgia started full day Kindergarten, and Walker started pre-school, leaving me with about four hours to myself each week.

-After not practicing it for many years, I returned to doing yoga. I love it so more than I ever thought I would, and have come to appreciate the focus and flexibility it fosters.

-All four of the kids continue to take private swim lessons each week. The progress they are all making is so exciting to see! It has been such a self esteem, and skills builder for all of them!

-It was a year full of family and friends. And that is greatest blessing of all! Del's parents, nieces, and nephew, and brother were able to visit. We traveled with good friends this year. I was able to go away for a weekend in Park City, Ut with friends that I have known since Jr. High, but hadn't seen in years. And still other friends from back home, and who have moved away, were able to come and see us in our home!  We also travelled back home to see our families a couple of times, and spend time with those we love. The things that matter most!

I am sure there more. But at this moment they are not coming to me!

We were able to spend time with the Tyson family for New Years this year! I have mentioned before that we are taking advantage of all the time with them we can, because they are moving back out West this year!
The Tyson's know how to do hospitality! It was so much fun to talk, and let the kids play and play! Jared pulled them around the yard on sleds with his four wheeler, and they had the time of their lives, then they all came in crying from cold and fatigue. Just as it should be!

Ella and Georgia

The party in full swing to ring in the New Year at a child appropriate, 9:00 P.M.

Leslie and Me

Walker and Georgia

Sledding fun!

Full of enthusiasm, Del dressed to go out in the 12 degree weather for some sledding, only find that he had grabbed the wrong snow bibs for the trip to the Tysons. It was QUIT the feat to squeeze into these too-small bibs! Things were more than a little tight. That fact was proven when Del's plants split right up the middle! It was very funny though!



Thank you for having us Jared and Leslie!