I just read a post on a stranger's blog that in a nut shell, ripped apart, and reduced moms that drive mini vans to second class citizens.
I will not lie; it hurt my feelings! Why? Because I drive a mini van!
I could get all my righteous indignation up, and go on to write a laundry list of reasons why the minivan is just as great, if not better than what the "Cool Moms" drive. But instead I'll just say that it works for my lifestyle. I don't think about it much, I just know that I can wake up in the morning, hop in my mini van, which fits the fruits of my labors to muliply and replenish the earth: plus some, and drive away.
Oh, that and it is payed off.
I am not even promising that I will always drive a mini van. But I will always pray that the value I place on myself and others, is not dependent on the fact that the wheels beneath me are attached to the latest, sleekest model to come out of Fantasticland. (insert country of preference here.)
You can criticize mini vans all you want. Just be careful that the criticism does not extend to the person sitting behind the wheel. I don't want to be known as the defender of the Mini Van. Just the defender of the mom inside, who more than likely is someone, doing something wonderful in this world. Some of the most positively influential women in my life have driven me somewhere, at some point in their mini van!
Now, I have heard all the jokes about the mini van mom. Especially where I come from. They seem to be more prevalent among that demographic. I have realized this since living away. But never have I heard someone outright say that they are embarrassed to even be forced to sit inside of a mini van, even with someone they love. It got me thinking. That must mean that some people look at me when I pull up in my van, and can't see beyond that. How sad that makes me. I have been written off because of what sits in my garage! I am not up to snuff. Mini van moms need not apply.
I will always have room for more friends. (In my life, not just in the mini van I drive.) It is hard to find ladies with the same values and perspective. So please I beg of you, give me a chance!
I know that I am beyond the hip days.
I figured that anyone watching me walk into a room with a gigantic diaper bag over one shoulder, two kids clinging to my legs, a baby seat, and maybe even a pregnant belly, with my kids lunch smeared across it, is not going to label me a trend setter. So I thought why not drive a mini van on top of it?
But I also ask that if you are in the same situation I am, with the one difference, being the car we climb into in the parking lot, look a little harder. You may find something you can value in that Mini Van Mom. Maybe even something priceless.